Saturday, January 9, 2010 @ 12:48 AM
* I've got helmet hair.
It feels so good to have a fresh start with a new blog. I miss updating about all those point of views I had about people nowadays and of course, how life is being sucha (insert vulgarity here). As for my private blog, I'll still be updating there but this is for the everyday reads for the uninvited people. No offence. But if you do wanna get invited, do tell me and i'll approve (:
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I wanna ask you people something, if you were to be in a dating status with someone, is it okay to be dating someone else at the same time? Or is it not? I'm confused cause I hate to be dating someone who's dating someone else at the same time. I'd feel cheated and i'd feel jealous but then, i'd realize that he's not mine and I have to keep an open mind and accept the fact that he wants to keep his options open.
No, i'm not saying I'm experiencing it. I'm just asking if it's okay. Cause I don't think it is.
Okay, when you're dating someone, you somehow have the heats for that person, yes? You cannot just date someone whom you don't like right? Why waste time like that? Tsk! I'm bringing up this topic cause I wouldn't wanna be selfish in wanting him all to myself. But I wanna get the message across to him that I don't want him to date anyone else but me. Is that wrong? Cause I feel selfish ):
To me, dating is like being in a relationship. Only thing is there's no official date or break up. In dates, what's worst is that if they don't like you, they will sometimes (or should I say most of the time) leave you hanging. And to me, personally, that hurts more than a break up.
Okay, what to do or what not to do in a date.
- Guys, take the initiative to pay for the first date (AT LEAST her meal). If you got no cash, tell her straightforward! "I wanna bring you out on a date but i'm currently broke. Unless you don't mind just hanging out and talk." If you got no money, don't ask her out and expect her to pay. No, i'm not saying this cause i'm a gold-digger but I do believe in the gentleman's rule!
- This applies to both genders, don't keep quiet! TALK! The purpose of going out on a date is to get to know each other. If both are shy, you'd both think each other is boring and leave each other hanging. Atlast, come online on MSN, blame each other for not working it out. Pfft! Merepek lah please.
- Guys, if you think farting on a first date is funny, well, sorry to burst your bubble cause it's NOT.
- And girls, don't overdress for a date. The guy would know if you're trying too hard. Some may appreciate your effort but some would get turned off too. Best is to play it simple.
- GUYS, NEVER TRY TO MAKE OUT WITH THE GIRL ON THE FIRST DATE. (or the 2nd even. or maybe even the third. or forever? Unless she wants it and initiates it. Eeeeyerrr)
- Don't show your ego! Put it aside or better still, leave it at home and don't bring it with you on your date. It will ruin everything. If you both start to have different opinions, EITHER ONE HAS TO GIVE IN. Don't just keep arguing and end up fighting. Unless the guy says that "Men are better than women." Just kick them in the nuts if they say that. (:
- Switch your phone to silent mode. Cause it's irritating to be on a date when the other party keep texting someone. Sometimes, I feel like throwing away the phone and smash it.
- Oh, important important tip. If you're on a blind date and you find him/her ugly. Don't pretend that you received a call saying you got a problem to settle and then leave him/her. You think they don't know? You think they were just born yesterday isit? Just make him/her happy for that day. TAHAN LAH, TAHAN!
- Guys, at the end of the date, take the initiative to send her home. Trust me, if the date went horrible and you sent her home and apologize before she steps into her house with the most sincere tone ever, turn around and walk away, she would give you a 2nd chance. Well, atleast I would. Unless that girl's a heartless b***h, then she don't deserve you. (:
I'm done.
Adios!